All the early Men’s Rights organizations in the United
States were focused on combating the epidemic of alimony racketeering. The
American Alimony Payers’ Protective Association was founded in New York City in
May 1927. A month later the
Alimony Club of Illinois was founded in Chicago.
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FULL TEXT: Alimony,
for many years, has been the goal of disgruntled wives, the material of the
professional joke-smiths, and the weekly or monthly bête noir of all the
ex-husbands who had to pay it.
Alimony, for many years, has been taken for granted as fine,
progressive American institution.
But now no longer. For just the other day in New York a very
earnest man appeared at the State capital with papers and a speech and all the
legal requisites, to form the very first association of its kind in all
America. [Chicago was to follow with the second, The Alimony Club of Illinois,
in June 1927.]
~ The A. A. P. P. A. ~
The gentleman was Robert Gilbert Ecob, New York architect by
profession, alimony fighter by avocation. Mr. Ecob is the founder and executive
secretary of the first American Alimony Payers’ Protective Association, duly
incorporated and now grown to 750 members. When Mr. Ecob launched his “Alimony
Club” he explained its purpose and the reasons which prompted him to found it.
“The American institution of easy alimony,” said Mr. Ecob,
“is responsible for the largest share of wives gone mad, marriages wrecked,
husbands ruined, unscrupulous divorce court lawyers unscrupulously enriched.
Alimony, in our country, and all that goes with alimony have become a menace to
our children, our homes, and our law courts.
“Polite blackmail is committed every day in the name of
alimony, perjured testimony is suborned in sadly too many instances;
unscrupulous women, in our state of New York, have actually contracted
marriages with wealthy men of wistful affections, just to bring about a speedy
quarrel and collect the alimony ever after.
“If we are to protect our marriages, we must fight this easy
alimony. That’s why I and the other founders of our association, have taken off
our coats and started in to work.”
So much, Mr. Ecob says, by way of explanation. Then he
elaborates, giving facts, details, specific cases which came to him when he had
studied the matter of legal separation, alimony, shyster divorce court lawyers
and disgruntled wives.
~ Some Do Not ~
“First,” says Mr. Ecob, “our association admits that the
wife whose marriage is hopelessly wrong is entitled to alimony. But our
association urges that many a reconciliation after an early quarrel would
result, did not the average judge award alimony so easily. Now the women’s
rights women will tell you that even with the vote women don’t have equal
political rights. They don’t. they have political rights far, far ahead of any
a man has. The husband in court is too generally judged and ordered to pay
before he has adequately defended himself.
“But let me tell you of one or two pathetic cases we turned
up in our study.
“There was Raphael. He was just a laborer, speaking poor
English. His wife told a lurid tale to the judge, which our investigators later
proved was made out of whole cloth in the office of her rascally divorce court
lawyer. Raphael’s wife had learned American ways; she wanted to be rid of
Raphael, but she wanted to keep his support.
“The poor wretch, on the strength of her story of abuse
which never happened, was ordered to pay her $30 of the $40 he made weekly. He
was also ordered to put up a $500 bond, to insure the regularity of his
payments. That poor devil hadn’t $500! He had no lawyer, nor any means of
procuring such a bond. He was promptly clapped into jail for contempt of court.
When he had been in jail three months, he was ordered to pay three months
arrears in alimony. ‘How can I?’ he asked, ‘when I haven’t worked, having been
in jail?”
~ Poor Raphael ~
“’Very well,’ said the fine legal system of our State of New
York, ‘then you go back to jail again, for contempt of court and for arrears in
alimony. In addition, we impose a fine.”
“Now, our association contends that this procedure is
violating the constitutional rights of this American naturalized citizen, since
it seems to our advisors, very much like imprisoning a man and finding him for
what is practically, the same offence. At any rate, Raphael’s is to be made a
test case.
“But, as we studied the haphazard administration of the
alimony laws, we were amazed and chagrined by the fashion in which those laws
played into the hands of wicked, unscrupulous alimony hunters. We uncovered the
case of a young woman more beautiful than she was good or virtuous.
“While still on the sunny side of 30 she had inveigled an
elderly man into marriage. her husband has comfortable means. Two months from
the date of the marriage, she filed suit for separation and alimony.
“Now the things the wifes charged her husband with were –
our investigation disclosed, absolutely false. They were all unpleasant sex
charges, which had they been made public in a court trial would have ruined the
man, professionally and socially.
“His lawyer heard the wife’s accusations. ‘You can fight it,
of course,’ he said, ‘but the girl is pretty. If it’s a jury trial – and
besides, it will be a public trial. She is not asking for a hearing in chambers
–‘
~ He Had to Give Up ~
“The result was that this respectable elderly gentleman
whose life had been meticulous before his marriage, made over to this young
adventuress more than half of his fortune to save his name and that of his
children by a first marriage. a few days after the transfer was effected we
found out that this young woman had been divorced by a previous husband who had
named five correspondents. We told the husband. ‘It would not have mattered,’
he said. ‘I could not had lived through the public disgrace.’ It was just
another instance of easy alimony. And the superior powers of women in domestic
litigation.”
But not only in such cases, the “Alimony Club” declares, do
innocent husbands suffer because of the system. There’s the question of human
happiness and a husband’s right to a home and children – when he pays out his
money for a home and children.
~ A Slight, Costly Tiff ~
“We have a case of a
wife her husband because of some slight tiff which most any couple might have
had in the early, shaking-down process of marriage. had she met some sensible
well-wisher, who would have given her a little sensible old-fashioned advice,
she might be a happy wife today.
“She fell into the hands of a specialist in divorce and
alimony, who began filling her up with an idea of her wrongs.”
“Then what did he do?”
“The husband had a good business, real estate, money in the
bank. The lawyer clapped liens on everything he could lay his hands on. The
husband, having money, begged the court to be allowed to use a little of his
own funds to defend himself. Litigation dragged, shockingly expensive. After
five years the wife had brought 31 actions, of various sorts.
“The husband’s business was quite ruined; his assets poured
out to his lawyers, his wife’s lawyers, in alimony and other fees; the wife had
collected just $1500, which had cost the husband $250,000 in litigation and
business depreciation, first.
“Today that
professional man is working for less than $100 a week – a ruined, unhappy
citizen, all because he loved his wife, wanted to convince her of her folly,
and trusted to the laws of his country to bring her back to reason. Again and
again we see our present system kill the goose that lays the golden egg,
without enriching the wife. The only party that often profits is the lawyer.
“But there are some ugly facts we should face. It is because
of these facts that our association will be made country-wide, with a New
England branch, a Middle Western branch, a Far Western branch and a Southern as
well.”
~ Women Joining ~
So the only association of its kind in the world [the writer
was unaware of the Austrian Liga für Menschenrechte, founded in 1926], has
started to work. And each day it adds to its membership goodly numbers of
women. “But women do not pay alimony,” you will say, quickly, “why, then,
women?”
Ah, brethren and sistren, these women are the devoted
mothers, sisters, maiden aunts and cousins of men who do. These devoted female
relatives have now and then mortgaged a piece of real estate or taken money
from the savings account to “buy out of jail” a male relative clapped there for
alimony troublers. These women, so says Mr. Ecob, have greatly helped the cause
already.
[Hazel Canning, “The A. A, P. P. Is Out To Scotch Alimony
Evil – And Women Are Joining the Antipolite Blackmail Society, Too – 750
Members and Spreading,” Boston Globe (Ma.), May 15, 1927, Editorial section, p.
8]
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